Perhaps one of the most important and clear-cut indicators that a girl is attracted to you is when you kiss her and she kisses you back. The Kiss Technique is not just about getting her to think about kissing you (which is also really cool), but it is about knowing the exact right moment when to in for the kiss. How can you tell that when you go in for the kiss you’re not going to get the cold shoulder?
The video above shows Joshua’s kiss technique which gives a very strong indicator of when a girl wants you to kiss her. It is referred to as “triangulation”. It is exactly how it sounds. This happens when a girl starts to create an invisible triangle with her eyes by looking at your eyes and mouth in that pattern.
She will look at (perhaps) your left eye, then your right eye, then your mouth, and then back again. It doesn’t have to be in any specific order, but when you notice her eyes jumping around in a triangular pattern, this is… well.. triangulation. It means her brain is excited with the emotion of attraction. She subconsciously wants you to kiss her as outlined in the Obsession Formula.
Now, it is very important that you go in for the kiss at this very moment. You cannot hesitate. Hesitation sends a subconscious signal that you aren’t confident enough. The longer you wait, the more your chances for rejection will increase. Girls have a filtering mechanism for guys that is constantly being exercised. Unlike women, men are generally either instantly attracted (physically) to a woman or not at all. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, but with men, attraction comes very quickly and much easier than with women. Attraction in women is all about body language and knowing what to say as a man.
With women, it takes time to for them to know whether they like a guy or not. This is tied to human evolution. Men just want to spread their seed as much as possible, but women need to be much more selective as they are the ones who ultimate control the conception of the off-spring. Again, this is just ties back to human evolution and the biological necessity for the need to produce. Today, we aim to live in family units where both the man and the woman take care of the children, but biologically we were not specifically designed to be like this.
The fact that a woman’s filtering mechanism is much more complex and gradual than a man’s is actually good news. It means, as a guy, you have got many more chances to get with the girl you’re attracted to than visa versa.
You’re probably a guy reading this, so think to yourself for a moment. How quickly do you see yourself getting attracted to a girl? It happens pretty quickly right? You say to yourself “Oh.. that’ll do” LOL or something like that. Now when you think of all the girls you are not interested in, do you see yourself ever becoming interested in them? Think of one of those girls who had a crush on you, but you weren’t instantly attracted to. Do you ever see yourself being attracted to her?
This is great news that with women it doesn’t work this way. If it did, the human race probably wouldn’t even exist anymore today. We’d be way too selective.
Women are very selective about men by nature, but it is not about looks, money, or muscles. It is about what these things do to a man. They make him confident. However, you can instill this same confidence in yourself without any of those things.
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